Sunday, 15 November 2015

Prayer for Syria & France

Over every living thing which is to spring up, to grow, to flower, 
to ripen this day  say again the words: 
This is my Body. 
And over every death-force which waits in readiness to corrode, 
to wither, to cut down, 
speak again your commanding words which express the supreme mystery of faith: 
This is my Blood. 

Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
The Mass on the World

Next Sunday, 22nd November there will be 
A Service of Silence & Beholding 
an unhurried time in which to dwell at the heart of the Eucharist
8am
St. Mary's Sullington
 with readings 
from the Syrian mystical tradition & from
Pierre Teilhard de Chardin & Therese of Lisieux 

For we are all one in Christ

Whoever you are, wherever you find yourself today,
Peace be with you









Wednesday, 4 November 2015

Still Waters at Wild Fortune

This Saturday, 7th November is the first of our winter sessions of Still Waters at our home, Wild Fortune. Timings and format are a little different to allow for the darker and possibly frosty mornings and to offer an optional extension to the morning should anybody wish to stay on in the quiet of the house, garden and woods.

8.30am – Gathering in quiet in the prayer loft;
9am – Short introduction followed by companionable silence & meditation;
9.45am – Optional sharing of insight;
10am -  Circle of blessing  

From 10am you are very welcome to either leave, taking the quiet with you into the day, or to stay on for an extended period of quiet, in the prayer loft, the house, the garden or the woods, concluding with prayers for peace in the prayer loft at 12 noon, finishing about 12.15.  Tea and coffee will be in the kitchen on a self-serve basis. As with our Quiet Garden mornings there is no charge, but donations are welcome towards the work of the Quiet Garden Trust.

If you are hoping to join us from 8.30am on Saturday, please let us know. Please note the prayer loft is upstairs and that it is a shoe free zone – so do bring woolly socks or slippers if you wish! You are welcome to use the drive for parking, though if you think you might like to stay for the whole morning, it might be better to park in the next road along and walk through the twitten into our lane.

Other dates are 5th December, 2nd January, 6th February, 5th March. If you’d like to know more or get directions, please do be in touch via this blog or email.

Peace be with you. 
Tessa & Mark


Wednesday, 21 October 2015

A Service of Silence & Beholding

An unhurried time in which to dwell at the heart of the Eucharist

Sunday 25th October
8a.m.
St. Mary's Church, Sullington, 
West Sussex RH20 4AE



'... if we are willing to be fully who we are in the equipoise of solitude, in the Silence of God, each of us is testing the edges of darkness, of unknowing, of death, testing the edges because only there is life. Faith is not assent to doctrines or surrounding ourselves with props and propositions. It is trust that God - as Christ shows us - has been there before us, goes within us, waits to find us beyond the edges of utter dark. And, found by God, we become aware that God is closer to our being than we are ... We find ourselves free-falling in eucharistic ungraspingness; and in faith we choose to continue to go on disturbing the universe, co-creating with God by our life and by our death become prayer in the mystery of grace.'

Maggie Ross
Pillars of Flame: Power, Priesthood, and Spiritual Maturity

Peace be with you. 

Thursday, 1 October 2015

October Stillness

Sheer Silence: Still Waters

Saturday 3rd October 2015

St. Mary's Church, 

Sullington

8am -10am

You are warmly invited to gather this Saturday up at St. Mary’s Church, Sullington, for shared contemplative practice. Again we shall be trying a slightly different format. From 8am until 8.50, following the briefest of welcomes, there will be a time of ‘Sheer Silence’ with the singing bowl sounding at intervals to bring us back to our breath or to shift our posture. We shall have some quiet music playing between 8.50 until 9 whilst we either arrive, leave or stay put!  Then at 9am Meg will be leading us for ‘Still Waters’, with an introduction, a time of quiet, finishing with a brief time of plenary for any shared insight that people would like to offer. The session ends at about 10am. From November until March, for the winter months, our Saturday morning contemplative practice will be at our home, Wild Fortune, in the prayer loft.  More details to follow in due course.

 Peace be with you. 

Thursday, 24 September 2015

Love Bade Me Welcome ...

A Service of Silence & Beholding

 - an unhurried time in which to dwell at the heart of the Eucharist - 

Sunday 27th September
8am
St. Mary's Church, Sullington, West Sussex

Love
Love bade me welcome: yet my soul drew back,
Guiltie of dust and sinne.
But quick-ey’d Love, observing me grow slack
From my first entrance in,
Drew nearer to me, sweetly questioning,
If I lack’d anything.

A guest, I answer’d, worthy to be here:
Love said, you shall be he.
I the unkinde, ungratefull? Ah my deare,
I cannot look on thee.
Love took my hand, and smiling did reply,
Who made the eyes but I?

Truth Lord, but I have marr’d them: let my shame
Go where it doth deserve.
And know you not, sayes Love, who bore the blame?
My deare, then I will serve.
You must sit down, sayes Love, and taste my meat:
So I did sit and eat.

George Herbert
1593-1633

Peace be with you



Tuesday, 8 September 2015

Welcome & Hospitality

We have recently returned from the Greenbelt festival*, a creative fusion of faith, the arts and social justice, along with people of all ages and weather of all sorts ... yes, it was wet and muddy ... and great fun! 

In amongst other things, we attended some talks and an art exhibition organised by the Corrymeela community whose work of peace & reconciliation particularly in Northern Ireland is inspirational and challenging ... and I have come home wondering about how their perspectives and insights about welcome and hospitality might inform my own life, particularly our ministry of contemplative welcome as a Quiet Garden ...

There is so much to explore, to ponder, to reflect upon ... so this is an insy winsy offering ...

For me, the Rublev icon depicts the Trinity of God as one of welcome... Father, Son and Holy Spirit caught up in the mutual gaze of loving attention – a sense of space at the front welcomes the viewer into the gaze – it draws me in to be part of the welcome of God ... 

That all sounds very lovely ... and it is ... it is also profoundly challenging, giving rise to the question -
'Can I live it?'
Can I be open to the other - Divine or human – and make space for the other in my attention?

Does my practice of silence (or any spiritual practice) cut me off from myself and the world? Or does it enable me to be more open, more able to give my attention with compassion for the other? (I invite you to ask these questions of yourself and your own practice.)

For me, there is an imperative to enable inner silence and stillness as that which gazes, listens and speaks into the muddle and joy of life - and that includes the current crisis in Europe. I have felt challenged by the news of refugees, especially by the emotive language and images in the press. It seems to me that there is a need to discern what really needs to be heard and what does not – what is to be welcomed here? 

This becomes a question that is taken back into the silence - a place of constancy before God and the drip, drip, drip of loving attention, to hollow out a place of compassion and loving attention which by its very nature sees what is to be welcomed. 

David Wood in his book Dark Prayer: when all words fail, says this, 

All the great writers and contemplative people in Christian history say that when you go deep into the silence and solitude of the chasm, yes, you are indeed alone. Yet, paradoxically, you become more intimate with all the peoples of the world, not less: you are not shut off at all. You become more empty so that there is more space in you to be filled. Usually we are so evasive that we fill up our lives with people and notions we want to be of service to - and those we want to be of service to us – and we screen off those whom we do not want. But in becoming ever more silent we discover that this screening process fades. The whole world comes towards us, enters us. And surprise, surprise, we can be greatly encouraged by the sense of solidarity this gives, in both suffering and joy, with all those who arrive at our house, now that we have room for them.

At the heart of you, you are not a blasted heath, windswept, withered with the bitterness of being alone and unlovable, but a meeting place like a good inn where humanity gathers and brings its warmth. And in this way we show something of the glory of God.

Compassion, welcome and hospitality begins here. So wherever you are, in time, place or journey, I invite you to put aside some time each day in which to become aware of your body, to welcome it just as it is, as thoughts arise to notice them with gentle hospitality, and through it all to quietly constantly return to your breath, the ebbing and flowing of the giving and receiving – and may the welcome of God, made known to us in Jesus, be our welcome, to ourselves, to the Divine and to the other ....  

in the peace of Christ
Tessa 


*www.Greenbelt.org.uk 

Wednesday, 26 August 2015

Sheer Silence : Still Waters

a time to enter silence, still the mind and encounter the present moment in quiet


Saturdays 5th September & 3rd October 2015
8 - 10am 
St. Mary's Church, Sullington, West Sussex, RH20 4AE

For September and October we are trying out a new format which we hope will allow time for silence, for some input and led practice with the opportunity for some sharing of insight for those who wish. The timings will be as follows:


8am - 8.50am  - ‘Sheer Silence’ with an opportunity for contemplative practice in companionable silence. No words; the occasional chime to bring the attention back to the breath and to change posture if required. the invitation is to arrive when you like during this time and quietly slip in and participate in the silence. 

8.50-9am - music interlude

9am- 10am – ‘Still Waters’ with a short led introduction, followed by about 25 minutes silence and then a plenary session for shared insight to finish.

You are welcome to come at either 8 or 9am or to stay for the whole time.
No booking is required and all are welcome.


He said, ‘Go out and stand on the mountain before the Lord, for the Lord is about to pass by.’ Now there was a great wind, so strong that it was splitting mountains and breaking rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a sound of sheer silence. When Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his mantle and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave. Then there came a voice to him that said, ‘What are you doing here, Elijah?’


1 Kings 19:11-13
Silence - c. Tessa Holland 
Peace be with you